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Here is an article from Youthville Farm & Ranch
Program, Dodge City, Kansas
THE LESSON OF POOH
There is no horse on Youthville's Farm that is
ornerier than Pooh. Put Pooh in the corral with other
horses and he'll bully the smaller horses, bite at the
mares. Put Pooh in the stall and he'll kick on the
door, demanding his breakfast. Put a rope on Pooh and
he'll untie himself from the post before you can get
this saddle on. Why do we keep Pooh around?
Group therapy on the Farm uses the horses to teach the
kids lessons. Sometimes the lesson is about trust,
sometimes it's about appropriate boundaries. Sometimes
the lesson is about how to get along with others. And
that's where Pooh comes in. This past fall, a girl
we'll call Sarah came to the Dodge City campus. She
was a very angry girl, and rightly so. Her past was a
sad, horrific story. Sarah couldn't make friends,
couldn't get along with the other girls in her
cottage. She would bully the smaller girls and demand
her way at all times. No one liked Sarah. She
pretended it didn't bother her, but everyone wants
friends.
One day during her therapy session with the horses,
Sarah was given Pooh to work with. Pooh bit at another
horse. He tried to rub his saddle off on the fence
post. He was just being Pooh. Finally in exasperation,
Sarah threw up her hands and announced she hated
Pooh and was tired of working with him. The therapist
asked her why, and she had a list of complaints about
Pooh's bad behavior. "So", asked the therapist, "you
can't get along with Pooh because he refuses to play
by the rules and won't be kind to you or the other
horses. Is that it?" Sarah agreed that it was. "Have
you ever noticed that some people are like that as
well? And it's so hard to be friends with people like
that, isn't it?" the therapist continued.
Sarah agreed and remained silent for the remainder of
the session. The next week during her therapy session,
it was a new Sarah working with Pooh. In a very short
time, Sarah had several friends in her cottage and was
learning to get along with others. Sarah had learned
the lesson of Pooh.
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